Answer yes or no. The flowchart decides.
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Questions
Should I text them first?
If it’s daytime, you’re sober and the last thing they sent was a question, yes: keep it short and specific. If you texted last and it hasn’t been a few days, give it time. If it’s after 1 a.m., put the phone down.
How long should I wait before double texting?
A few days is reasonable. If the last date was actually good, one light follow-up is fine. If weeks have passed with nothing, that quiet is usually the answer.
Is it bad to text someone late at night?
Late-night texts tend to read as being up late thinking about them, whatever you meant. Write it in your notes and send it in the morning; the words will still be true.
What should I text instead of “hey”?
Reply to something they actually wrote, like a profile prompt or a story they told you, or suggest a day and a place. Both give them something easy to answer.
Do you save my answers?
No. The flowchart runs in your browser and your answers are never sent anywhere. The route image is made on your phone too. If analytics is on, we only record that the flowchart was finished and which of the 13 endings came up, and, if you save or share the image, which ending and how.
The whole flowchart
Every question and where yes and no lead.
- Is it after 1 a.m.?Yes: Have you had more than two drinks?No: Have you met in person yet?
- Have you had more than two drinks?Yes: Drink water. Go to bed.No: Did they post a story 4 minutes ago?
- Did they post a story 4 minutes ago?Yes: That’s not a sign.No: Draft it. Send at 10.
- Have you met in person yet?Yes: Did they text last?No: Did you match in the last 3 days?
- Did they text last?Yes: Did their last text end in a question?No: Have you been on read for 3+ days?
- Did their last text end in a question?Yes: Is your draft longer than three lines?No: Do they owe you $1.50 for a Costco hot dog?
- Is your draft longer than three lines?Yes: Delete half. Then send.No: Text them.
- Do they owe you $1.50 for a Costco hot dog?Yes: Send the Venmo request.No: Stop texting. Ask them out.
- Have you been on read for 3+ days?Yes: Has it been more than 3 weeks?No: Have you reread the chat 5+ times today?
- Has it been more than 3 weeks?Yes: Let it go.No: Was the last date actually good?
- Was the last date actually good?Yes: Double text. It’s legal.No: Let it go.
- Have you reread the chat 5+ times today?Yes: Close the chat. Go outside.No: It’s their turn.
- Did you match in the last 3 days?Yes: Is your opener just “hey”?No: Have you been texting for over a week?
- Is your opener just “hey”?Yes: Answer their prompt.No: Is your draft longer than three lines?
- Have you been texting for over a week?Yes: Stop texting. Ask them out.No: Did the group chat vote no?
- Did the group chat vote no?Yes: The group chat said no.No: Is your draft longer than three lines?