Fearful-Avoidant

Come closer. No, not that close.

I miss you. Also, I need space.

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Try this: When you feel the pull back, name it: “I’m spooked, not leaving.”

More about Fearful-Avoidant

Fearful-avoidant daters, sometimes called disorganized, want closeness and get uneasy once it arrives, so they lean in and pull back.

On dates

You want it badly, then get spooked when it starts working. Hot, then cold, then sorry about it.

Texting

You type a paragraph, delete it, send “haha,” then wish you’d sent the paragraph.

What you need

Slow, steady and kind. Someone who stays the same when you swing.

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